Have you ever wondered why guys can look at a female that he has never met before and say that he is going to marry her? Well there is a reason behind this and its true. I think it also helps understand why men can date one or many females at the same time that are all good quality women and not commit to any of them. I hear a lot that men do not know what they want. I laugh when I hear this, because I think the opposite is true, Men know EXACTLY what they want. Women are more likely to remain single(and celibate) until they find an acceptable mate. Men however are not like this. We prefer to date and search simultaneously. We keep company until we find the one that keeps our attention. For women, this is very frustrating and often leads to a decline in self confidence, because when the man finds what he IS looking for, you are sometimes left wondering what you did wrong. So what do men want? I think I can answer that, and how can a female tell if a guy is serious? That's the next blog.
Ok, ladies…have you ever met a guy that was moderately attractive, yet very sexy? Think hard..it wasn't his looks that drew you to him, it was his swagger. It was the way he dressed, smelled, walked, smiled, laughed, or any combination of any number of things. Usually the thing that is noticed with that "swag" is how he carries himself and the confidence that he exudes. Women also have swag. I was watching a movie call "Cherry Crush" and in the movie there was a female that was described as "she makes life look easy." That statement is very deep if you take the time to think about it. Men also look for a swag in their women. We notice the way you smile, the way you carry yourself, and the confidence that you have. We want to know that when times get rough, you won't fall apart at the seams. We want to feel like we can trust you with our children. We want to know that you are sweet and caring, yet firm and strong willed. We want independent, but not feminist. Obviously this list varies from guy to guy, but its all qualities that you can see from the gate. So ladies when a guy tells you immediately he is going to marry you…maybe you should take it as a compliment to your swag, and not take out a complaint at the local police station.