Why are men so focused on sex?

Ok, so why are men so focused on sex? Well it's a simple explanation. Let's look at both sexes...to understand you have to know what each one desires from the other. The end goal is a relationship for both sexes...we just go about it in a different way. You have to find something that separates one person from another so that you can choose someone that is special to you. What makes someone special to you?

Generally speaking, a female can assume that she can get sex from any guy that is interested in her. So she cannot use sex as a determining factor for a relationship. Instead she has to use something with more depth like conversation or personality because those are the things that set most guys apart from each other. She looks for things that mean something to her specifically, like his goals and desires, his ambitions, his drive and determinination, because those are things that unfortunately not all of us men have. It's like a female is constantly raising her standards as she gets older so that she can find Mr. Right. Once she gets to that 80%-85% compatibility rate then she is getting to that range of finding the right person for her.

Conversely, a man knows that he can get a relationship from just about any female that is interested in him, because we assume that most females would prefer to be in a relationship. So we have to find something that sets one female apart from the other, and based on my experiences, the one thing that separates one female from the next more than anything else is what she is and is not willing to do in the bed. It sounds pretty bad, but its quite true. Women generally would prefer to be in a relationship with the right guy, and they are also more focused onimproving themselves for the future than we are. So finding a woman who wants to be in a relationship isnt as hard as a female finding a man that wants to be in one. So we have to look elsewhere. Men as we get older tend to lower our standards, not to anything low, but to realistic proportions. We stop looking for that video girl (or our mother's in some cases) and we find a nice attractive female that treats us well. Thing is, as a man, all we really need is 40% compatibility and good sex. lol....
hate to say it, but its quite true. We expect only 40% cause we know for a fact that there is gonna be somethings in any relationship that we wont like, so we dont even try to look for that perfect situation, but if we can find that 40% and a freak...then we are there!!!